Couples Toolkit — Grow Together Companion Workbook

The companion workbook to Grow Together or Grow Apart — a printable, written-in toolkit for couples doing the actual work.

The Couples Toolkit takes the frameworks from the book and turns them into a structured workbook you and your partner sit down with, fill in independently, then bring together for a conversation that actually moves the relationship.

What's inside

Part 1 — The Growth Mindset Assessment
20 statements across four sections: Self-Awareness, Relational Adaptability, Emotional Regulation, and Shared Vision. Score 1–5 for each, then compare scores in the Partner Comparison Table. Includes the 0–100 score band interpretation so you know where you actually stand.

Part 2 — The Conversation Questions
The 3 Critical Diagnostic Questions — the same ones Portia asked Isaac in April 2026 that started the whole framework — plus 7 Deeper Conversation Starters. Answer in writing first, share second, discuss third.

Part 3 — Our Relationship Contract
A written declaration of who you are choosing to be for each other. Seven sections: Conflict Agreement, Communication Commitment, Financial Agreement, Vision Alignment, Growth Commitment, Emotional Safety Pledge, and Review Clause. Signature blocks for both partners. Review every 6 months.

The basics

• Format: Digital download (PDF), printable A4
• Pages: Designed to be written in — printable, fillable workbook
• Authors: Isaac Tau & Portia Mokoena
• Publisher: Tau Ecosystem
• Best with: Grow Together or Grow Apart — the book provides the frameworks, the toolkit is where you apply them
• Delivery: Download link emailed immediately after purchase

For book buyers — your bonus inside

If you bought the paperback, look for the GROWBONUS coupon card inside your copy. It gives you 50% off this toolkit — our thank-you for choosing growth.

This is not a tasting. It is a relationship. Build it on paper first.